Paternology (FATHERHOOD) with Dr. Darby Saxbe

DADS. What makes a good one? What if you had a bad one? And how can fatherhood turn the tides on toxic masculinity? Also: diapers. The brilliant USC research psychologist,  fatherhood expert and thus Paternologist. Dr. Darby Saxbe covers everything from prehistoric family systems to social media expectations as we chat about male hormones during and after pregnancy, division of labor, dad bods, gorillas, TV dads, seahorses, trans dads, oxytocin, gender reveals, and how it truly takes a community to raise a kid. Her brand new book is  “Dad Brain: The New Science of Fatherhood and How it Shapes Men's Lives,” and it’s great reading for anyone who was the result of a sperm and egg. Including frogs.

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Links to things we discussed:

Effects of Paternal Involvement on Fathers and Mothers

Why Girls Love The Dad Bod: If your man can rock the dad bod, he's a keeper.

2016: Obama Just Signed a Law Mandating Diaper Changing Tables in Men’s Restrooms

James Austin Kalbaugh: May 18th, 1940 - March 1st, 2019

Recurrent miscarriage and male factor infertility: diagnostic and therapeutic implications. A narrative review

Paternal epigenetic influences on placental health and their impacts on offspring development and disease

I started the 'gender reveal party' trend. And I regret it

*ANDREW TATE* MOST CONTROVERSIAL MOMENTS!

ANDREW TATE BEING MISOGYNISTIC

Andrew Tate being sexist for almost 4 minutes

Effects of Father-Neonate Skin-to-Skin Contact on Attachment: A Randomized Controlled Trial

Effect of skin to skin contact on father infant bonding in a randomized controlled trial

Supporting Active Fatherhood in Britain - History & Policy


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